9 Tips To Help Your Kids Make It Through A Flight

Let's face it: traveling with your kids can be challenging, especially when it involves things that are out of your control, like an airplane ride. But before you stress out and start debating whether you should be making gift bags for the passengers around you to pacify them, our opinion is that it is not necessary to do so if you come prepared for your flight. And that means thinking about the specific things your child may need to get through the flight smoothly based on their age and stage.

For babies, one of the main things to keep in mind is making sure they have everything they need to keep them comfortable and rested. Toddlers typically need lots of toys and snacks to keep them busy. And while older kids may be more flexible when it comes to getting off their schedule, don't forget to turn travel into an adventure for them as well. While you should always expect the unexpected while traveling, these tips can help you plan ahead, so that your travel day runs a little more smoothly for both you and your littles.

The cabin pressure changes in an airplane can be uncomfortable for the baby's ears. Nursing, offering a bottle, or giving a pacifier during takeoff and landing can help because it encourages swallowing, which helps ease pressure in the ears. If your child has had an ear infection or ear surgery within two weeks of your flight, ask your doctor if it's okay to fly. You may need to give pain relievers in these cases or if your child has a cold while flying, so be sure to pack some medicine in your carry-on.

Getting out on the first plane in the morning may lower your chance of delays. And let's be honest, if you have little kids, you were probably already up anyway. Another tip: if you can try to schedule flights around the time your child normally sleeps, it can make things much easier for everyone, both passengers and parents. That said, you can't control flight delays, so be prepared that your strategy may not work out. While flying with young children can be stressful, sometimes you just have to go with the flow.

If you have a long flight ahead of you, such as an international trip, look into whether you can book a seat where you can get a "sky cot," which is a flat bassinet that attaches to a bulkhead wall. Airlines have different rules about who is able to use these cots. Some state that babies need to be under 6 months old or 20 pounds, and not yet able to sit up on their own. For older kids, you may want to check if your airline offers "lie-flat" or "flat-bed" seats that can become a bed for you and your child to stretch out on.

For little ones, snacks and treats may keep them as busy as toys. In particular, make sure that you pack snacks that won't spill, stain, or spoil, so you don't have to spend the flight cleaning up messes. Think things like granola bars, fruit snacks, Cheerios, or crackers, which also keep their hands busy. Also, bring along protein-rich foods like string cheese or travel-friendly snack pouches in a range of flavors to keep kids fuller longer.

If you think you have enough diapers in your carry-on, throw in an extra. Flying is much less anxiety-provoking if you're prepared for any situation, like blowouts, spills, and needing an outfit change. That means having items like wipes, a change of clothes, and layers for temperature changes easily within reach at all times. Don't forget to pack plastic bags for dirty clothes and diapers, as you may not be able to get to the trash right away.

Keep things interesting for your little one while you fly by only pulling out one toy or activity at a time. That keeps your bag of tricks from getting boring. Some of the best things to have on hand are items that don't easily roll away or get lost within the seat. While crayons are fun, they're just asking to be spilled all over and lost down the aisle. Instead, think reusable sticker books, magnetic toys, and water activity pads that can be used over and over. 

Some airports have play spaces, so be sure to check what's available. It's a great way for kids to get out some energy before having to sit. If there's no play space available, let kids explore the terminal rather than waiting and sitting before a flight. Some children's suitcases can be ridden like scooters, which can keep kids busy and make getting to the gate more fun and active.

Toys and activities that you only bring out for travel (along with a few new surprises) are a great way to keep your child preoccupied. Think things like puzzles, books, and toys that come in their own carrying case and are easy to travel with. Wrapping new items to add to the kit makes it even more exciting for kids. You can also use the promise of some new presents as an incentive for good behavior during your flight, so don't pull out everything at the beginning of your journey.

Flying with your kids may be the time to let screen time limits go, even if just for a little bit. But make sure you're prepared. While many airlines offer free kids' channels that are part of the in-flight entertainment, if you have your own tablet, it's a good idea to load it up beforehand with episodes of your child's favorite shows or movies they love. And don't forget the headphones; wearing them is part of passenger etiquette. Choose some that are child-sized and comfortable to wear for extended periods.